Mary Ellen Acanfora

Mary Ellen Acanfora

Saturday, October 27th, 1923 Wednesday, September 4th, 2019

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Obituary for Mary Ellen Acanfora (Haugh)

ACANFORA, Mary Ellen (nee Haugh) of Blasdell, NY September 4, 2019; beloved wife of the late Salvatore F. Acanfora; loving mother of Sharon (Melvin) Kahler and the late Linda (John) Marsillo and late Paul Acanfora; mother-in-law of Deborah Acanfora; cherished grandmother of John (Cheryl) Marsillo, Jennifer (Bob) Driscoll, Kristen (Tom) Carmichael, Kim (Jim) Graves and Michael and Jason Acanfora; adored great-grandmother of Alyssa and Austin Marsillo, Alexa and Nicholas Carmichael and Aidan and Addison Graves; dear sister of David (Beverly) Haugh; pre deceased by brothers and sisters; also survived by many loving nieces, nephews, dear friends and neighbors. Family will be present to receive friends Friday from 3-8 pm at the (Blasdell/Lackawanna Chapel) JOHN J. KACZOR FUNERAL HOME, INC. 3450 South Park Ave. where prayers will be said Saturday morning at 9:45 followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at Our Mother of Good Counsel Church at 10:30. Interment Lakeside Memorial Cemetery. Mrs. Acanfora was a member of Catholic Daughters of America Court #1311. Share condolences at

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  • Visitation

    Friday, September 6th, 2019 | 3:00pm - 8:00pm
    Blasdell Funeral Home
    3450 South Park Avenue
    Blasdell, New York
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    Friday, September 6th, 2019
    3:00pm - 8:00pm
  • Service

    Saturday, September 7th, 2019 | 10:30am
    Our Mother of Good Counsel
    3688 South Park Ave.
    Blasdell, NY
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    Saturday, September 7th, 2019
  • Interment

    Saturday, September 7th, 2019 |
    Lakeside Memorial Cemetery
    4973 Rogers Rd.
    Hamburg, NY
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    Saturday, September 7th, 2019

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Art and Marge Wohlabaugh sent flowers to the family of Mary Ellen Acanfora (Haugh).
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Art and Marge Wohlabaugh

Sharon, Art and I send our deepest sympathy for the loss . Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Mel.
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